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sober, enthusiastic, non-coerced, honest

Oh my fucking god….

I’ve been raped by every single woman I’ve had sex with. Fucking rapist bitches, who the hell do they think they are?

I’ve been drunk SO many times when I’ve had sex. Because I was drunk, I wasn’t of sound mind to decide whether or not I wanted my penis in any of them.

I’ve not been in the mood, and was seduced (that is, coerced) into being in the mood. After being coerced, I had no idea I was being raped as I happily pounded away and got rode like a beast. But now that I know…I feel so dirty.

I’m not always honest with my sex. Sometimes I still wasn’t all that into it, even after faking like I did want it. I know, she had no way of knowing I was lying to her. It’s my on damn fault for not being honest, I can’t expect her to read my mind. But still, these women all raped me.

My wife has raped me so many times….

On a more serious note, the level to which the word rape is being mutilated is such a shit-in-the-face to actual rape victims. According to this picture, and ANYONE who endorses it, almost every single human being on this planet is a rapist and a rape victim.  In an attempt to include everything into rape, and to open the door of rape side wide that pretty much anyone can accuse anyone of rape and get away with it, the damn word has lost its meaning.

I’ll give you a classic example of consent:

“Hey, I wanna fuck.”

If he’s drunk when he says it, he’s still saying it. If he’s lying, it’s his fault for lying. If he’s not enthusiastic about it…well, maybe he needs to find another partner who excites him more thoroughly, or simply be honest and say no thanks. The inclusion of enthusiastic seems rather odd and, honestly, redundant in a list that also includes honesty.

Non-coerced. This includes everything, every single thing that could be considered any type of manipulation. Seduction, petting, kissing, anything that causes the other person to become aroused and to get in the mood—if he or she indicated a lack of interest prior, any thing you do after that which may lead to him/her changing his mind, getting in the mood, is an act of rape. I can honestly say that I have not escaped being raped by every single woman I’ve been with, ever, according to this list. Neither have they escaped being raped by me. To the one who actually has experienced rape, she would find this list so offensive and degrading to what she went through, she’d probably vomit on the sight of it.

I don’t even want to know how she’d react to finding that this shit, shit that makes HER into a rapist, is not only being circulated by pawns on the internet, but has actually made its way into law.

(Source: feminishblog)